You should talk to women just as you would talk to anyone else. That’s because women actually are anyone else. They are just people like you and me. Even the most beautiful woman is just a regular person with the same basic wants and needs as everyone else.
Usually the problem with talking to women is that we clam up, or that we put them on such a pedestal that we make ourselves look subservient and weak. If you have had trouble talking to women this article will cover a few things to keep in mind so that you don’t make the mistake of talking yourself out of a good situation.
Be unconcerned with approval. In general women are attracted to men who have some clear goals and know that they are on the road to achieving them. One way to signal this type of attitude is to abandon approval-seeking conversation in favor of bold, confident talk. This does not mean to be boorish, ignoring the other people in the conversation and hogging the speaking time. Rather, you should speak your mind confidently and clearly.
If people laugh at you don’t suddenly change your tune to agree with them. Also, avoid sycophantic confirmation of the statements of other people. If someone (especially the woman you want to attract) says something you disagree with, just say so. Not in a rude way, but as any well-adjusted adult should be able to do.
Express romantic interest. Keeping in line with the idea of being confident and goal-directed, if you are romantically interested in a woman (and that’s what this is all about, right?) don’t be afraid to tell her about it. Hiding behind platitudes and feigned friendliness is obvious falsity; you didn’t approach a woman in a nightclub because you want someone to play checkers with.
She will respect your honesty. If she is not interested in you she will just say so, freeing you up to move along to a more receptive woman. Again, this does not mean you should use crass or blunt language, just that you should clearly express you interest with your words.
Point out positives along with the negatives. While you are talking to a woman there is sometimes the urge to shower her with compliments. She may well deserve them, but chances are she has been bombarded with this type of conversation since she was a teenager.
It’s fine to compliment her, but you can also point out some of her faults, too. If she has an ugly dress on, tell her. Just make sure to phrase it in a joking, playful manner. Let her know you dislike her clothes, but that you aren’t pointing it out just to be a jerk. Again, she will respect your honest.
The best way to talk to a woman is with honest, directness, and confidence. Tell her what you really think and she will be able to accept or reject you based on who you actually are. And if you talk to her that way, chances are it will be the former.
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